Get Clear on What You Want: Soul Centered Success: Strategy #3

Oct 04, 2019

This week I want to share with you Soul-Centered Success Strategy #3. You won’t want to miss this one! It's hands down where most of my coaching clients (private and group) get stuck… but eventually super excited!

 You're not alone

If you've ever felt indecisive, lacked clarity, experienced resistance or fear, you're not alone. In fact, it's so common that many of us aren’t even aware of how much time we spend in these emotions and mental states.

And, we’re often overly focused on what we don’t want or stuck in limiting beliefs that our energy, inspiration and intuition to get locked up.

My experience

When I first met one of my most influential teachers he asked me what I wanted. With a big smile I replied that I’d like to feel happy and grounded. He stared at me, then asked me the question again. He explained that my answer was abstract and unclear. He told me that although my answer was honest, it was vague.  In reality, words like happiness, successful, grounded and so on mean different things to different people. 

This distinction is such an important part of living a soul-centered life. For me and so many of my coaching clients it has been a game changer in how we live and thrive.  

CLARITY is Power

Clarity is about each of us defining our own success. It’s about doing and being what connects us to who we are, how we want to show up in this world, what we want to create and experience. 

So clarity is a BIG strategy. It is a BIG step. That is why I put so much emphasis on it with my clients and in my groups.

Use these questions and strategies to start getting clear on what YOU want

  • If you could wave a magic wand what would you want to be, do and have? Don't worry about strategy just imagine the answers that are true for you.

  • Write about how you want to feel. How would you like to feel in your life, health, relationship, career, success, etc?  Feelings are little activators!

  • Write down your life goals. Don't worry about how you'll accomplish them just yet. Just start to get clear on what you want. Allow yourself to want it. 

This is your one precious life. Make it be about what lights YOU up. 

And be on the lookout! I’ll soon be sharing more strategies form my Soul-Centered Success Academy: Six Strategies foSoul Centered Success  As always, thank you for being part of my community!

With love,


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